About Me

Before I go into all the other titles or accolades a woman adorns as she reaches her milestones through life let me just introduce myself as to you as Wendy. Wendy is in my opinion what you would see in a crowd as one of many. But within me I think I am like no other.

I am now 35years of age and despite earlier fears that when I got to my 30's all of life would wittle and die, I am pleasantly surprised by how wonderful and liberating life becomes with age. I think I am what you may refer as a young soul. Let me tell you now that I don't rightly know how a thirty five year old is supposed to feel, act or be. I mean I see women my age at times and to me they look older than I feel, or is it that you look older outside but feel younger inside? Lord please let that not be the case, the wrapping not representing the gift.

Secondly I am a mother of three wonderful and most beautiful children (Ariyel_Ijeoma (AKA IJ), Eden_Chioma (AKA Chichi, Lihle_Tim). I love my children with all my heart and suspect I will cherish them unto death and beyond. That being said I really do wonder at times if having children is not the most selfish thing we do. I mean as things are, i'm almost persuaded that intrinsically we're not doing any soul a favour in bringing them to this place. I am persuaded that being in the spiritual form without making the stop over into time while we meander our way in eternity is the best of states. What motivates us to have children? A desire for existential relevance, for posthumous longevity, for unconditional love or expression of that love? It's just a useless question that bounces around in the parking lot called my head from time to time.
Third, I am a wife to a man that I think God decided in a moment of generosity: "well if she is to marry, I'll let her have this one. I've fortified him with enough resilience to take her accentricies without inflicting mortal wounds". I think my husband grounds me and helps me come back to earth when my notions become too fanciful. And last but no least, I am a skills development consultancy. I think this part of me came by default because by nature I love sharing information and seeing people become and embrace the bigger and better parts of themselves. I think that’s what gives me the talent I have for facilitation in my work.

My other love is beautiful homes and I wish I didn’t wish for all the things i wish I  had enough money for to fill my home. That’s why I’ve taken up building my anterior design portfolio. If I can’t have them, let me help someone who can afford them choose & enjoy them.

I love books and that's why I write reviews, interview authors, and conduct book promotions @ Fabulosity Reads. Over and above that I love music in all its forms or more accurately most forms. I mostly use a fantastic sight called Jamendo. the music is not mainstream and I love discovering new artists. Some not know to the world. My  favourites are Oleg Serkov, Maya Filipic, some Cafe del Mar, Kendra Springer, Blue Angels, Civil Wars, Josh Stone and Nora Jones to name but a few.
And last by not least, my last love _ ART.

My current dream and ambitions are focused around my creative interests. Of equal share I want to develop as a writer and an interior designer.I have also taken up buying art and I'm interested in seeing where this is going. So far I have about  pieces......and no money for shoes.

I have this one in an A4 piece of paper courtesy of my printer...LOL

This is me in a nutshell but I’m sure this page will grow. Kathy Lette writes: Lack of self esteem is hereditary, you get it from your kids.." I know this page will grow as I have not suffered from this ailment as yet but then again my kids have not yet reached their teens and have not started looking for loopholes in their birth certificates so they can put themselves up for adoption.