Why I Write

I entered this blogfest on a whim the other day because it looked pretty undaunting and unlike some that I see floating around, undemanding. As I take the shrinks couch in my head I now realize how I misled how much I misled myself, this is not an easy because it means internal digging, this is deep. Unfortunately I don’t have much time because with everything going on and me starting a new review blog, it slipped my mind. I’m glad I saw that Kayeleen was on my blog today. I hope everyone will hold to their commitment as I also scrabble to meet the deadline.

I have a number of witty things I could say about why I started writing, like the fact that in December  last year I jokingly said to my friends I’m having a midlife crisis in my mid thirties and need an outlet. Or that I needed a clandestine lover that won’t leave me ravaged with adulterous guilt. But when I seriously think about it,   just needed to do something for myself that would help me find me, it hit me on my for 35 birthday this past December when I asked who am I or what do I like, I couldn’t answer.

I’ve always loved books and when a friend suggested that I should blog because I have far too much to say for the Facebook platform, I though well perhaps I could take something I enjoy a step further. I can’t explain it eloquently but blogging has been so liberating.  I am learning new, very pleasant things about Wendy everyday and I can sleep. People who knew of my sleep issues said I needed prayer, counselling and all sorts of additional things but as much as I know I always am in need of prayer, this time it turned out, I needed an outlet. From the day I started blogging, insomnia ceased.

I now have a number of book related  WIP’s and could not be happier. I feel healthy, I’m not skipping and dancing in the rain all the time but I am happy and so is my family which is quite remarkable.

My Kink Is Not Sexy

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Friends please don't forget to head on over to Fabulosity Reads for my first interview featuring Blood Reaction author DL Atha as posted yesterday. I really would love to get your feedback in comments there.
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As for the kink in my hair.....

One of our living ancients, Hugh Masekela, caused an upset in South Africa a few months ago amongst the fairer sex by saying he refused to take a photo with a girl that had a weave on her hair because he doesn't find weaves and "fried" in the least bit attractive. I'm sure he thinks that of you display the kink in your hair then you are being authentic and African. Mmmhhhh?

I personally think that's monumental hogwash resultant from brain cell impairment due to excessive drug and alcohol use in his youth and old age with is in turn turning him into a cantankerous old geezer. Which can be forgive I suppose.

I was reminded of this episode today as I undid my hair and did the conditioning treatment bit. Afterwhich I tried to comb and style and after 15 minutes of this it became quite clear that I wasn't gonna win Mess SA/Naija so I just threw up my wide tooth comb in exasperation. My hairdresser can only accommodate me tomorrow and so I am left with a full 24 hours of unsexy.

Thank God my husband isn't around otherwise i'd be hearing the usual "m'bweke" comments (note! this is an Igbo (one of the Nigerian tribes) term I have adopted but don't know how to spell as yet). I think its a derogatory term for someone from the backwaters of some backward village. Somebody looking something like this:

I'm sure you can see my dilemma and will ampathise with my "OhI'msoFatandUgly" feeling today. Hopefully the situation will be much improved tomorrow.
But don't let me have the last word on this as I wait anxiously for my long tresses to find their way to my head and feel halfway female again, never mind fabulous.  What do your prefer, natural or how shall I put this....... tastefully acquired?

Fabulosity Reads Reviews

Hi everyone. Please don't forget to check out my review blogs. You'll find this weeks Coraline review posted and tomorrow I have DL Atha (MD) and author of Blood Reaction for an interview. From Thursday I'll be giving away 13 copies of her fabulous novel that she has so graciously sponsored so don't miss out, there's a good chance of winning.

The cunning mum

Some of you may or may not be aware of the mega battle that rages between parents and technology. Today I feel like I have gained significant ground against this tyrannical god. Yesterday I gave my son a copy of Neil Gainman's Coraline and later asked him how he was finding it to which he said: "it's really wonderful mommy"and in fact even as I type he's at it. Now my son does like reading but if he has to choose between his favourite tv. show his play station and a book, the toss would be between the spawns of technology.

So today while having some me time in the shower, some people sing, I ponder, I had an epiphany. He's always looking for ways of making extra money to save up in his bank account. I think the idea of having an ATM card and depositing and withdrawing is quite appealing to him because he has no access to his current account and with a new phone his lunch allowance doesn't cover maintenance costs.

You may ask: "are their no chores for him to do and get paid" but to me that is tantamount to paying for their being born. I will not pay someone for cleaning out their room, taking out the trash, etc. That's what we all have to do in penance for something we did on the first day we landed on the birthing table.

So I thought it quite clever of me when I said to him this morning I had a business proposal. For each books he reads and writes a review on, I will pay him $2 (R14) which when you consider that this could get me a Kindle eBook I don't think is bad. He may have to reread some but the idea of him actually writing a short assay about what he's read and then type it for publication I think is awesome. He was almost jumping out of his sneakers when I told him he's so excited.

Our agreement is as such.

1. He must come up with a name for his segment on my Fabulosity Reads.
2. He must do at least one review a week.
3. Deliver at least 1 reviews a week using the following structure:

This Story is about

I thought this was really cool.....

I thought it would have been even better if......

In short I think.......

I will go with him to open a new bank account, pay him by EFT each month and then print his bank statement.

I bet you very soon picking up a book will be more common place than picking up the remote. Once books get your creative juices going you can't help but get hooked.

OH, Kader Asmal Died Yesterday

An icon: Kader Asmal

This is terrible news. I don't know him well as a person but as a politician he projected a man of integrity, principal and love for people and concern for their well being . He believed that in our country everyone should stand up for what is right. He was definitely one of those whom I never thought i'd hear is gone, such was his impact and presence in this society. He was active right up to the end, he gave a talk last week and was currently reading a book on human rights which laid at his bedside when he was admitted to hospital . I honor him as a human being worthy of the most prestigious positions in the books and records of South African history and the world. We no longer have many left of this mans caliber and certainly, our government is so lacking of them it's left an oozing, festering sore.

 May his great soul rest in peace.

HIV+ PUPPET 2 MINISTER OF EDUCATION KADER ASMAL
WELCOMES THE NEW TAKALANI SESAME CHARACTER KAMI
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Heart attack claims stalwart Asmal

"ANC stalwart Kader Asmal suffered a serious heart attack and died while he was in hospital for a stomach ailment, his family said on Wednesday.

“Asmal was admitted to the Constantiaberg Medi Clinic on June 17 for treatment of a stomach ailment.

“He was making reasonable progress in a general ward up until late last night (Tuesday) when he suffered a serious heart attack,” said family spokesman Allan Taylor."Who was this man?

Motherhood is a kind of madness

Monte Casino (Where all currencies meet....LOL)

We've had a rough couple of weeks at home and hubby thought yesterday would be great for all of us to just go out and spend the evening frolocking, do a movie and dinner. I am not as misled as he is but I thought it reasonable to anticipate a nice chilled evening and then maybe a coffee and cake in between at Skoobs, my fav. book store in Monte casino. The place is full of lovely entertainment for kids.

The following are my last thoughts before my head hit the pillow in exhaustion at evenings end and I know I said I wouldn't be blogging but couldn't resist this...........

• You know you a mother when you can’t take a toilet break in peace because little people decide that’s the time to play hide and seek or tag to keep you company and you have to think of all sorts of creative ways to spend “me” time, including coming up with places that you don’t have to be for a cuppa at the coffee shop.



All this and more were on the
 buffet @ Billy G but I can't
remember what it tasted like.

• You know you a mother when you can’t remember what you ate at a fabulous restaurant because you spent half the time too busy trying to force feed a tiny person without looking like you were deliberately attempting asphyxiation in public and the other half reinforcing table manners.
• You know you’re a mother when don’t feel you need the gym because you are nearly falling off your feet every night from running after four little feet.
• You know you're a mother when you know you need the gym because all that running doesn’t make up for all the half finished spoonfulls and plates you finish off automatically because its far too much trouble to make a decision as to whether to store or throw away after going through the trauma of feeding two little mouths.
• You know you're a mother when you don’t realise you’re talking to yourself until a stranger bursts out laughing because they just overheard your strangled moan followed with a whimper of: “this is too much work” as you chase someone up the stairs for the 2rd time and they beat you to the top and pass the rail to descend the same stairs again..........ON THE OTHER SIDE
• You know you're a mother when you have to not only repeat things 5 times to the hubby to get a move on but now 15 more times before all the inhabitants start to lose the glazed look.
• You know you're are a mother when you have to say sorry countless times to imaginary hearts because the owner complained it was broken because of your yelling.
• You know you're are a mother when at the movies you discover at least one bucket of popcorns is at your feet and you no longer feel guilty about someone else having to clean it because no one on this planet could understand what you’re going through right now.
• You know you a mother when you swear that the next outing his spawn will see is one of their 21st birthdays.
• You know you a mother when you pass a couple of weeks old infant, hear them cooing and think, you know what, maybe I could do with one more. Children are a blessing.....these delusional thoughts immediately dispelled the moment I took a step away to do the running up the stairs bit.

ToTal Madness This Is.....LOL

My Life Has A Life Of Its Own

Have you ever had this happen to you. Right now I feel like I'm watching someone's life happening and I have no say in it. Anyway that life's demands are such that my blog life is suffering as I haven't some up with any inspirational stuff for a while and it would seem I won't be on blogville for a number of days from today. Something about this picture below feels a little like what I used to call my life right now.....so friends say something nice to the Man upstairs about me before you call it a night.

I will never leave you nor forsake you

And once again I know this to be true. You take me out of the miry clay make the crooked ways straight. My walk with you is never smooth and yet you remain constant in your faithfulness. As permanent as the skies, most revered and feared in the counsel of the holy ones.
You to whom the heaven and the earth belong, you have your eye on the liitle sparrow and on little me.
Sometimes it is a kick from the old enemy that has me shouting from the mountain top that The Holy One of Israel, never slumbers nor sleeps, even if I am in the uttermost parts of the sea, there shall you find me.... for you are my Keeper. You are the great I AM, and so who can say a thing and it comes to pass when You have not spoken.  When you say nothing and no one shall by any means hurt you then indeed nothing shall. Mine and my own will only continue to witness with our eyes the recompense of the wicked.
And so I continue to believe and know that though walk through this valley, my heart has no fear for this too shall pass. For it is true, You are the Lord God Almighty and the earth is filled with your goodness.  Selah......

Review Guide/T&C's @ Fabulosity Reads

Please go ahead and check it out and if you haven't followed as yet please I implore you to do so. Thank you to my six followers, you are superstars.
Authors/Publishers/Publicists

I review books sent to me by yourselves as a non-profit activity. As this is currently purely a hobby I do not guarantee a review once I have received a book and neither do I guarantee a positive review as a result of having received a free copy. What I do guarantee is an honest assessment of your book in terms of entertainment value, character and plot development and editorial accuracy of final version.  If you would like me to review a book, host a blog tour, conduct an author interview/guest blog post on my blog, run a promotion or giveaway, please email me at Fabulosityreads@gmail.com. I endeavour to reply within 76 hours to confirm whether or not I accept the request for any of the aforementioned. more.......

Clan of the Cave Bear

THE STORY:

Takes us to back 25 000 years to a time when Neanderthals and Cro-Magnon walked the earth. We follow the story of a little 5 year old girl, orphaned when her family gets killed by an earthquake and she is the sole survivor of her clan, left to fend for herself. 

She wonders for a number of days through forests trying to survive as best as a five year old can and just when she is about to succumb to death after falling prey to a cave lion, she is saved by a Neanderthal woman of the Clan of the Cave Bear.Fabulosity Reads: Clan of the Cave Bear

Holiday’s, Prizes, Thank you’s

Holidays

Today South African’s are on public holiday. Youth Day marks a rather macabre event in our history. I suppose you could call it the day it all came to a head. South African black students staged an uprising that put the gravity of South Africa’s apartheid system to the world. And so as we go about our little daily chores, being grateful for one less day of work and our children being ever so happy to get four whole days of no school, let is all remember to take a moment of silence, in remembrance and gratitude towards those 176 young heroes and heroins who never made it past their schooling years for the sake of our freedom.

Prizes

As you may have seen in my last review posted on this blog, I indicated that I’d be moving all my book activities (well most of them anyway) to Fabulosity Reads. I’ll be hosting my first Give Away soon and am looking for Prize Sponsors. So if you are an author, agent, publisher, etc and youd’d like me to help promote your product, please drop me a line on fabulosityreads@gmail.com. I’m also interested in featuring whoever is going to sponsor prizes as a guest author or in an interview. I’m very excited about this project and the prospective publicity it will generate so please help me out.

Blog Awards

Lovely Darlene @ Darlenes Book Nook has nominated me for this decadent award and I just want to say thank you ever so much. Iam so please by your gracious gesture.
Darlene's blog is becoming my info. center. If you want to know what's happening at Blogsville then do yourself a favour and head on over there, the girl has her fnger on the proverbial pulse.
Darlene I hope you will not be offended but I cannot divulge anymore information about myself otherwise my blog friends will stop coming to my blog for lack of intrigue. I have shared far too much already, I hope you don't disqualify me.

For this Blog Award I am nominating:

Another Look Book Reviews
EK Family Books
My Life In Stories
I refuse to go quietly
In Accepting the award you have to:

1. Share 5 unknown facts about yourself and 
2. Pass it on to however many blogs you want to share it with. Good Luck

Last but certainly not least, please don't forget to head on over to Fabulosity Reads, it lonely over there.

To be or Not to be...I suppose that's the question

I don't know how many times a married person asks themselves this question and here I confess that I certainly have and not once. There have been times in my relationship that I’ve said to myself (although this is really the first time I say it to anyone else, never mind the hundreds of people who will read this) that marriage is not all it’s cracked up t be. Which is actually exactly the problem? What is it supposed to be cracked up to be and who set that benchmark? I suppose we have Barbie and Ken to blame.

And there have been times that out of frustration I also thought, there has to be more to life than this, and then a day later be thinking I could not love life more than I do right now, right here. I have said to him, I want my life as it was, I can't go through another day of this and then with all that forgotten I could be caught saying: I can’t imagine life without him, it would be unbearable. More often than not I have felt quite schizophrenic, never knowing who and what I am from one moment to the next or even knowing what I want.

I'm sure you must be wondering by now, what on earth is she on about. Well. I'm going on about being married or single.

I am a thirty something year old female, been married for five of those and raising a family with what I consider to be a very good man (most of the time). I mean I wouldn't be terribly honest if I said I think him wonderful all the time because one of my girlfriends may pitch up here and remind me off all the times I said he was the last person I want to see before my day of reckoning. But yes mostly I think he is a wonderful man, everything I deserve and more. 

I also find myself observing my single friends who seem to spend half their time staving off paranoia stemming from a paralysing fear and suspicion that they’re never going to find the one to share their dentures with and the other half pretending they don't need him, possibly out of sheer exhaustion from looking . I was woken to this shocking fact while speaking to a school friend late last year whom I had just reconnected with through skype. We had been in primary together are the same age.  The conversation went something like this: 

Wendy how many kids do you have now?

3 I said.

Oh wow, I wish I could be you.

Me who looks at her life and thinks "is this all there is" said: Why would you want to do that to yourself? Do you know how much hard work this is and what a thankless job it is? At least you have your life. (ok I was very stressed last year, I even had a heart scare as a result of work pressure.

Her retort was: Wendy, I am in my early thirties, there are no marriageable men out here, I am still dating and getting into relationships that fizzle out after a couple of months, how long will I keep going on like this....what example am I setting for my nieces because even my youngest sister is now married. 

I just want someone whom I can love and will love me and work towards something together.

This put a new perspective to my situation ( this is what I had gotten and was now perhaps taking for granted)......so in that 30 seconds after her response I saw my marriage through lenses I hadn’t put on for a long time, maybe a couple of years.

 Just last week I went to lunch with a friend, one of my best friends and inevitably things moved on to the subject of men and children for a moment. Somewhere in the talk I said to her: Can you believe what IT did....and so I go off on a tangent about my domestic irritations whose sole origins are my other half....after my rant I ask, by the way, how's it going with your boyfriend....I am expecting anything from which one to we got engaged but no, I get: am taking an oath of celibacy. 

At 35!!!!!!!!!!!

That will be like trying to get off a Swiss chocolate addiction but I do not say this. This is gonna be painful. I put on my: Oh no, things will get better don’t give up face, _but I’m not sure I’m pulling this off convincingly. All I want to say is:

What is going on out there?

I don’t actually have an answer or a solution here but am wondering, is this a dilemma that affects others too? Do people ever talk about it? Does everyone walk around looking like they have the recipe for the perfect relationship while inside are haunted by a niggling worry that all is not as it should be in their private little world?
I am really beginning to suspect that there is no ideal state of being outside of the one you are in. Being happy or sad while single or married is a direct result of what you decide to put into either state. I don’t know whether if I was a single thirty something I would be happy being single but neither do I really feel like being married is like having conquered the world. I suppose it feels like the right place to be at the right time for me....a natural progression in my journey of life because I strongly feel that my inner most desire is to love and be loved. So I suppose for better or worse, I'm in it for the long haul.

BLOOD REACTION BOOK REVIEW

I've decided to remove most of my book reviews from this blog specifically because I kinda feel like they are getting lost in all my other stuff and I really want to have a dedicated space to learn and do interviews, blog tours for books and Give Aways.  I hope you, my dedicated posse', will  follow my reviews and ventures on Fabulosity Reads in addition to Fabulosity Nouveau, my baby to be loved unto death and beyond.
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My latest read is DL. Atha's Blood Reaction and I must say she has made my vamp fiction experience all the better. You will find my review on this fabulous book on Amazon, Good Reads, Bookblogs and Fabulosity Reads. Please visit the latter to orient yourself and stake your claim on the follow badge.

Buy this book

THE STORY
The author takes us to the bundus somewhere in rural America. A doctor living with her daughter finds herself involuntarily having a house guest of a supernatural kind. The vampire (Asa) forces the good doctor into bargaining her life away to save her daughter from the clutches of pure evil.

WHO'S WHO
There are two main characters:
• Annalice is a doctor left alone at home while her daughter is on holiday.
• Asa is a nomadic vampire angry at the world and intending to let anyone who crosses his path knows it.

THIS WAS HOT
• The beginning of the book I found quite impressive. In fact I absolutely loved it. The author doesn’t dilly dally. She is very quick to introduce the main characters and the plot and moves on to the crux of it without leaving out important details.
• The story is told as a first person narrative and I really like this because I felt it took away long explanations and she tells the story so well it’s like watching events unfold with the teller.
• The medical approach, I’ve read quite a number of vampire novels and not many make extensive use of medical backgrounds but it was used so well in Blood Reaction it complimented and gave credibility to the tale by merely highlighted the narrator’s expertise in the field.
• The doctor looks at her “infection” as a medical experiment”. I think this gave great insight into what  “happens” when one is being turned into a vampire, again not many books of this genre explain this in convincing detail.
• Her last thought which is towards her mother in the end is really quite shocking and intriguing.

NOT SO HOT
A number of gramma and spelling errors and repetitive use of specific words and phrases. I think a good thesaurus would be handy.
Lack of conflict/struggle to adjust in the end after she turns felt too convenient (in fact this reminded me too much of Bella’s change in Twilight which I felt was lack lustre). It does feel a little hurried considering that the entire story has been leading to this point.

OVERALL
I like this book, I really do. I read it in a day and although I’m left in the dark about how things end, I’m glad the author left us wondering because for a moment towards the end I was worried that a great story was going to have a mundane ending.
I noticed that that DL is very good at tying up lose ends, there’s never a thought or event left dangling, so the fact that the end has questions and we haven’t heard the conclusion of the detective's involvement leaves me wondering whether the saga continues.
This is a great read that gives a lovely fresh angle to vampire fiction.

Top Blog Tips....Advise...well, its a blog something.........

I've never written a post on blog advise before because I never felt I had enough experience. But you know, I've been blogging for almost 6 months now and I feel I've had enough time to reflect on what worked for me even if i'm still falling short of being an expert.
Thank you to my fellow Book Bolgs Ningers who responded to my Blog Tip Question on my  page. This helped stimulate my thinking.

I also have to mention that there are four specific bloggers whose blogs I rely on the most for such advise and in no particular order they are: 
Karen G
Rach Harrie
Myne Whitman Writes
Pro Blogger


So what pearls of wisdom am I dispensing today? Well let's see:

1. Write for yourself and readers will appreciate it. The only time I ever really felt compelled to waffle for the sake of getting something on my blog was with the A-Z Blogfest and I suspect that this is the only time that other bloggers would dare excuse blog laziness by coming by to visit again. Writing good and unique content is the one sure way of keeping yourself inspired and others interested.
2. Do not lose yourself: Its easy to get tempted to blog about what others are blogging about, but remember why you started blogging. The more blogs and ideas I'm exposed to the more difficult I find it to remember this. My blog break has been a good opportunity to reflect on who I am and why I'm doing this. That being said, learning new things means we evolve into more and better (well I hope this is so), so make room to accommodate development but don't leave that which sets you apart behind.
3. Design for yourself. Your content and blog look  must reflect your individuality. They say less is more with regards to look and feel. You did catch the bit where I said_ They Say _ right? Whenever I organize things on my blog I try to get rid of one or two gadgets (especially when I'm adding). I test the effectiveness of a gadget by asking: what purpose does this serve? Does it add value to my blog/ message/voice?  So use gadgets perhaps more prudently than I do, I'd be on Prozac if my blog where to look stark, I don't carry the desert look well. 
4. Very very important, give credit where its due. Never use someone's work without giving credit in a meaningful manner and I don't mean just mention their name. You must mention their name, link to their blog/site and if possible by all means redirect the reader to their blog (I feel the redirect bit is particularly important if you are using another bloggers work).  Using someones' work in a way that prejudices them in whatever manner is unacceptable and reflects trailer trash mentality that should be reserved for your interview with Jerry Springer. PS! It also doesn't hurt to mention to the other blogger in their comments that you will be reposting their feature or using their material on your blog. 
5. Disable word verification.....and I suggest you do it quick, this is very irritating. I've also given up posting comments on certain blogs because of this. You think your comment is captured and move on. Only later when you check on whether the blogger responded to your comment, you find out it never went because you were suppose to check for the word verification pop up  after submitting. Its a terrible waste of time when you have 100 other blogs to check and Blogger is very good with spam.
6. Treat others as you would like to be treated. If you want comments, you comment on other blogs first, if you want followers, besides writing great content, follow other blogs and give constructive input on those blogs. Visit other blogs but especially your followers blogs. A trend I noticed with myself early on is that I tended to visit the blogs of the most recent followers more frequently because those appear first. Now I rotate my start points. One day I start from the very beginning, another from the middle and last from the latest. It's impossible to visit everyone on a single sitting and not planning your visits will leave some followers unvisited and uncommented on.
7. Always respond to comments. This is one of the first things I read from Karen's advise posts many moons ago. You don't have to respond to each one  but make sure that your audience knows you're paying attention. I feel that when you don't do this, its like being invited to a dinner party and then having the quests entertain themselves because the host left the party. I also think its a good habit to copy your response to the commenter's email address time allowing. Some visitors may not return to see your blog to see your response because they neglected to click on "the follow comments to this blog post" prompt. I've missed this prompt a number of times to my great irritation and I appreciate it every time I get a direct response from the poster.
8. Very important, always welcome your followers, I follow quite a lot of blogs and its only a handful of those that acknowledge your follow with a welcome. I think this is incredibly ungracious and discourteous. That person does not owe a visit or allegiance to your blog and it is only a sign of good breeding and character when you take a moment to thank a new face on your follow gadget. Unless you get 50 followers a day, you should endeavour to find the time to send a brief welcome and thank you email at least within that first week of their arrival.
9. Lucy Rock's tip really really hit hard for me.  She says:  do not to be a slave to your blog and make it work for you rather than the other way around :-) write regularly but don't get too stressed out and make time for your reading as well. If you write people will follow.. I have been a slave I regret to say, so hard to kick an addiction but kick it I must.
10. And just because I have to have a 10: Use Graphics in your posts. Interesting and relevant graphics give visual appeal, help facilitate comfortable communication and encourage greater understanding. I suppose this is the most biased of all my points because I am a visual person. I see a long post with no pictures or clips and I sincerely promise to return later to read but somehow never get there. But show me that same post with interesting pics and things interspersed and I'll read to the end. 

BookBlog.Ning blogger additions

• Write for yourself and share with others! 

  http://parismusings.blogspot.com

• Quality over quantity ManOfLaBook.com

• Pick a consistent theme and stick with it. DrAmyR 

• Keep it simple. Keep it regular. Keep it fun. Thanks for the word verification tip. Stephen Lawrence

        Brayton 

• Post regularly.  Be original.  Jump right into it.  Who needs the summary? William (Bill) Torgerson

• Go out of your way to respond kindly and courteously to people who may have inquires about anything

         concerning your blog. My respect for some bloggers has grown immensely simply with the way they    

         responded far beyond my expectations to questions I had as new blogger. I think this is invaluable! Eva

• Bloggers having their email available, I also advise creating an email just for your blog.

        Network, comment on other blogs, if participating in mems, participate, don't just post. 

        Enjoy it, don't let it become a job or you will get burnt out, read for the love of it, don't read to blog. 

        Marce

• The best advice I have received so far came from my husband who advised me to blog only 'for myself' 

         and only when I am inspired. My best pieces are the ones that come naturally.cookiesbookclub

• 1. Be honest.  2.  Arrive at an opinion - don't dance around and make the reader wonder whether you     

         liked the book in question or not.   http://josephsreviews.wordpress.com/

• "Do what you love" _Over the years, this has become my blogging mantra.  David Gutowski

The French Nocturne Book Review _ by Roland Yeomans

Hello friends and friends to be. I've been away for a while, still away in fact, sick as a dog but I'm long over due for a blog update and I thought the best thing would be putting up my FQN review  as it will have a couple of days exposure before I can update again. South Africa is sooooo cold right now it ridiculous. I think I've now caught an infection in my chest, its aflame......Please get a hold of an FQN copy, it's well worthwhile.
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THE STORY:

Sam McCord is the dark hero of this epic tale of death and destruction inNew Orleans by the cataclysmic Katrina. Katrina not only leaves a hurricane ravaged city behind but unleashes all sorts of supernatural enemies of man all out for his blood and soul.

WHO'S WHO:

There are two main characters:

• Sam McCord the conflicted hero.

• Father Renfield, Sam’s best friend and right hand man with vampire qualities.

THIS IS HOT:

• The complexity of the characters: I found the main characters well developed and the layers being peeled away as you get into it are definitely worth the time spent glued to the pages. Its one of those books where you simply have to know..... 

• The writing style is rich and you can’t help but be both amused and awed by the double entendres littered throughout or the sagacious reasoning of the protagonist. I think the writer is quite philosophical and poetic which is in my opinion adds depth.

• Suspense  - There are great scenes  and those really hold the audience in a grip. Like the scene where Sam meets the serpent (I loved me idea of a serpent that’s vulnerable, Rind). This scene is so tightly woven that when the Padre’ jumped in with a witty remark I felt like a coiled spring being sprung loose. Or the one moment when Marie Laveau exchanges eyes with her boa constrictor. I read this and thought this book is freak galore (in a good way). What goes on in Roland’s mind?

• Father Renfield’s past that leaves me feeling he is the most badly dealt by fate. He is a man of the cloth yes _ but at what cost? Which is a real contradiction because priesthood is a calling and that should be a blessing?
• I have a number of favorite quotes that will stay with me forever. 

This is one of them, not necessarily the most outstanding but very appealing to me: 

“Her female intuition told her that you became a worse husband in direct proportion to your becoming a better man. In the last years I must admit you have become something of a nauseating saint, a man with all the virtues I despise and none of the vices I admire.”

NOT SO HOT:

•  The gramma and spelling errors. A round of editing  would be very good for this book but mind you, this does not detract much from the great read that it is.

• I also would have liked more development around certain themes for example, like Rind and her species, she is central to who Sam has become but so is Elu and his mother and the question is how and why. I have the when as somewhere in the last 180 years.

• I thought Sam McCord indulges his own thoughts a tad bit much. 

OVERALL:

The idea of a bad hero is very exciting and quite fascinating to watch. The great conflict is between the natural pull of the dark side within our hero and his desire to believe in what he calls the great Mystery (God), who remains an elusive concept to a great extend. But as all of us are both good and evil, McCord can’t help but make sure that goodwill is done for those most vulnerable in society and this pits him against powerful government figures and the master of all, Day Star, who has illusions of being Lucifer himself. You can imagine what happens when you have a delusional all powerful.

 I can’t wait to see what happens in the next instalment (Croal Nights) which the author was kind enough to send my way.

If  you enjoy urban fantasy that is brimming o'er with dark vengeful supernaturals, then I think this book is a must read.

Blog Haitus

I'll be away from blog-ville for about a week or so due to some pressing business. I wonder how I will cope without everyone here. But I take heart in leaving you with the kind of love felt for Uncle John........... This is the best of all loves. LOL

'Twas Ever Thus

(In invitation of Thomas Moore)

I never reared a young gazelle, 

(Because you see, I never tried);

But had it known and loved me well, 

No doubt the creature would have died.

My rich and aged Uncle John

Has known me long and loves me well,

But still persists on living on-

I would he were a young gazelle.

I never loved a tree or flower;

But, if I had I beg to say

The blight, the wind, the sun or shower

Would soon have withered it away.

I've dearly loved my Uncle John,

From childhood to the present hour,

And yet he will go living on-

I would he were a tree or flower!

Henry Sambrooke Leigh